Kenyan content creator and comedian has shared in an Instagram post that his wife, Milly Chebby, supported him when he was financial unable during the early periods of their dating life.
He appreciated Milly for paying up to 98.9% of their bills together. With this revelation, Terence stated that there should be no problem with a girlfriend supporting his boyfriend financially. The term associated with this description is ‘Kuwekwa’.
“Ladies if he is not financially stable and you are, support him and respect him until he is stable, give him your money as the head of the house for management. Usianike mume wako mbele ya watu,” Terence wrote on his Instagram.
Terence Creative was weighing in on the recent revelation by Alma Mutheu on Obinna TV. She publicly revealed that she has been supporting her boyfriend, whom they’ve dated for 3 years, financially.
Terence opined that ladies should give their money to the head of the house for budgeting necessities. Furthermore, he urged them to avoid embarrassing their men in public, but rather persevere together during the difficult periods until the man becomes stable and returns the favor.
“Mimi niliwekwa for 4 years plus, my then girlfriend Milly Chebby who is my wife now of 11 years plus, used to pay 98.9% of all our bills. Wacheni kuanika waume zenu ipo siku watakuwa stable na watawaweka, kwa sasa mvumilie na yeye ajitume.”
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Speaking at Obinna TV, Alma Mutheu expressed her worries with the lover Gift Musiq. She said that she provides for him everything financially, a sentiment which got the attention of Kenyan netizens.
“It gets to a point where as a woman you get tired of providing everything. We have had a lot of arguments because of financial issues,” she said.
Responding to the claims by his girlfriend, Gift Musiq stated that the comments do not affect him negatively but rather challenge him to become the best version of himself.
“I know people will talk but no one knows how far we have come with Alma Mutheu. She is very supportive, I appreciate her pushing me to do better. I didn’t take it negatively,” he said.
Terence Creative’s comments were well appreciated by a section of social media users while a majority of women noted that this was still a risky gamble. Here were some of the comments
Caroll Radull: A good man is a good man and is worth supporting/investing in. But Ladies support a bad man at your own risk. Speaking for a friend.
Lizzy Khairu: I did that in my marriage for 8 years kumbe he was pulling resources to be able to plan and move in with the love of his life? Never again!
